As she writes, “I am not a babysitter or a mother and no woman should feel that they need to be. “How absurd that you minimize female self-respect and self-worth by saying someone should stay in a toxic relationship because he wrote an album about them,” she writes, clarifying that really only one song on the album was about her–NOT THAT THAT MATTERS. That sort of entitlement is dehumanizing and incredibly creepy.Īriana Grande responded to the tweet directly: It’s bad enough to blame Grande’s choice to end a relationship for her ex’s destructive behavior, but the implication here is that Miller somehow earned and deserved Grande’s affection by writing songs about her. Mac Miller totalling his G wagon and getting a DUI after Ariana Grande dumped him for another dude after he poured his heart out on a ten song album to her called the divine feminine is just the most heartbreaking thing happening in Hollywood Nope, this rando blames Ariana Grande for breaking up with him recently. As this guy saw it, Miller’s not to blame for his actions. That’s what some dude was doing when he tweeted about rapper/producer Mac Miller’s recent car crash and DUI. Everything from school shootings and serial killers to football players not footballing well enough–it’s just a quick hop and a step to finding a woman to fault.
It seems like no matter what a man does, people will find a way to blame his behavior on a woman.